Is There Someone Else?
When you meet someone that you really fall for, it is hard to think straight. That's why they say that love is blind. Everyone has met someone that they were really enamored over. That feeling is simply incomparable. You feel like you're walking on clouds, you are happy, excited and you feel like a kid again. You find yourself smiling stupidly at nothing at all and you are so caught up in the way that you feel and that other person that you wouldn't know it if the world stopped turning. However, how do you know if that person is really free?
Have they given you their home phone number or is it just a cell phone number that you have? Have you been to their home? Do they ever have to leave suddenly when the two of you are right in the middle of something? If you stop and think about it for a few minutes, does it seem as if they are hiding something from you? This can be something that is pretty hard to take. You don't want to think of the possibility of this person lying to you or being involved or married already. However, it happens every single day.
If you are unsure, there are a few things you can do to tell whether or not it is alright to continue on or if you need to have caution. Pay attention to the person. Do they act like they have other things to do? Are they always checking the time or do they always have to leave suddenly? If so, they may have lied to their families and have given themselves so much time to spend with you before they have to return to their 'other lives.' Have you met his or her family? If they have offered to let you meet their parents, siblings or other family, chances are they are not already involved. If it has been quite a while and they still haven't offered for you to meet their family, you might want to use a bit of caution.
Another thing you can do is visit a website like www.SuperLegal.org . All you have to do is enter their phone number or their address and you can find out all kinds of useful information. You will find out their home phone number and address if you don't already have it. You can find their marriage or divorce certificates so that you know if they are married or not. You can find out if they have ever been charged with a crime and much more. This is one great way to ease your mind. If they are not married, perhaps it is just a fear of commitment or something else keeping them from having you over to meet their family. Either way, at least you will know that you're not contributing to the pain of someone else. If you are in doubt, follow the advice and tips above so that you won't have to worry and wonder any longer.